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How to Overcome Fear of Driving A Car

Fear of DrivingHow did your fear of driving start? Can you recall any particular frightful incident involving you or someone close to you? Have you heard of terrible experiences from someone?

Whatever the cause of your fear of driving a car, that particular scary experience has snowballed into a major crisis – a driving phobia. You may be suffering from palpitation, sweating, lightheadedness, short and irregular breaths, quivering hands, or feelings of losing control or thoughts of crashing.

These symptoms are actually a cumulative effect of the actual fear of driving (which is a tiny portion to begin with) and the fear of having these symptoms. Unfortunately it’s become a vicious cycle that keeps escalating.

The Vicious Cycle of Fear of Driving

First stage in this cycle is the actual fear of driving caused by any incident, real or imagined. A mere remembrance brings with it slight symptoms of sweat, trembling or any of the ones mentioned above.

In the second stage of this fear cycle, you begin to fear that the symptoms will escalate. This fear of symptoms makes you even more afraid of driving, thereby worsening your symptoms.

In the third stage you give in to your feelings of fear and give up driving. You avoid the situation.

In the final stage, you experience a sharp fall in symptoms of fear because you have given up the idea of driving. This sends out a signal to your subconscious mind telling it that the way of reducing fear of driving is to avoid driving. Your belief that you fear driving gets reinforced.

How to Overthrow This Belief That You Have a Fear of Driving?

The only way to break into the fear cycle, get hold of it and eliminate it from your subconscious mind is to de-link the feelings of fear associated with driving and re-link it with pleasant and happy feelings instead.

This process can be successfully executed with a technique discussed below that reprograms the subconscious mind.

Reprogramming Technique for Overcoming Fear of Driving

Sit back and relax on your couch to perform this exercise for overcoming your fear of driving. It works by replacing the feelings of anxiety with those of peace in your subconscious mind.

Think of something very pleasant and beautiful. Recall a day when you felt happy, relaxed and secure. Maybe it was on a holiday with your family, at the beach lying in the sun, or when you first held your newborn.

Fear of DrivingPick up something from your memory and relive those wonderful feelings, the smell, the touch, the sounds…

The key is vividness. Recall your blissful feelings vividly.

Now, just for a length of two seconds, imagine yourself driving your car. Go back to your memories immediately. Drift into those feelings again.

After a minute or so, once again imagine yourself driving your car, for no more than two seconds.

Revert to your blissful and “safe” memories immediately, before allowing fear or anxiety build up. Continue this cycle for about 20 minutes.

What’s going to happen is your brain will reprogram itself to associate feelings of peace and happiness with driving. The old programming will be broken. You shall be a different person within two weeks.

That was how to overcome fear of driving using a brain reprogramming technique. You can easily overcome the general fear of driving through this technique.

But you need to go deeper and find out exactly what you are scared of while driving. And we will work a way through that too. Find out – is it a general fear of driving phobia, driving on freeways or bridges, phobia of busy intersections, fear of how to park on crowded streets without smashing a light…?

How to Overcome Your Specific Fear of Driving

Once you find out what exactly scares you while driving, sit next to an experienced driver among your family or friends, and observe how they do it.

Now apply the technique that we discussed above right there as your partner drives through the scary bridge, intersection, freeway, or whatever that gives you the fear of driving.

Fear of Driving on FreewayFor example, consider that you have fear of driving on freeways. Watch your partner drive effortlessly and skillfully on the freeway.

Absorb the situation. Sit back, relax, and think of something that makes you feel happy, relaxed and peaceful. Close your eyes if need be.

Draw from your memories and fill your mind with those feelings. Not so difficult when you are in the passenger seat with eyes closed.

Now once every minute, for two seconds each, open your eyes and imagine yourself in the driver’s seat driving the car. Continue this cycle for 15-20 minutes or until the feeling of fear dissociates with driving on the freeway. Open your eyes and continue to imagine yourself driving with those feelings still in your mind.

Now switch places with your partner and practice. You’ll feel much better than going it all alone. You can overcome your fear of driving on freeways or bridges or anything else in this way.

What is your fear of driving over bridges anyway? The bridge isn’t going to collapse? All you really need to do is look straight ahead and follow a straight line behind the other cars in front of you. If you do this you won’t hit the sides or crash into the separator. Practice the reprogramming technique and you’ll be fine.

Final Words

Take it step by step. It’s a wise thing to do especially if your fear of driving tends towards phobia. If you have a fear of driving over bridges, first drive over really small ones.

Then drive over those that are about the length of 1-2 blocks and more. Finally proclaim your victory over the fear of driving over bridges by driving over really long bridges spanning water. If you have a fear of driving on freeways, take the first exit after ramping up.

Next time go further. Initially stick to the rightmost lane. As you gain in confidence go one to the left.

You can find more of such techniques in the Driving Fear Program. Hundreds of people like you have overcome their fear of driving with this program.

The author himself has gone on from being a timid driver to an adventurous one and he wants to share his tips with you.

{ 109 comments… add one }
  • Dan Carneal April 12, 2010, 7:57 pm

    Hello, I am Dan Carneal, a driver’s ed student who just discovered there’ssomething hindering me from doing well, driving anxiety. I have only been in one car crash, and it wasn’t fatal, however, as a driving student, I have responsibilities I can’t meet because of my driving anxiety. I am kind of always thinking that yes, Crashes are a Reality, which, they are, so maybe how can I stop thinking about crashes?

    Thanks for reading. I hope to hear back.

  • Heather April 23, 2010, 6:07 pm

    Hello! I`ve stopped my entire life because of this fear.I`m 33 years old and now I’ve finally sucked it up and went in for my beginner’s permit. I feel foolish, stunted, and emotionally immature. I do suffer from general anxiety disorder, so this is going to be a major milestone for me..But the fact that my actual driving skills are okay are what keep me going forward.

  • Joy April 29, 2010, 12:48 am

    When I am driving in the morning, when I reach a tunnel, I am feeling that my vehicle is moving towards right also I am thinking that my car will meet an accident. it is in the same place almost all the time and also in highways.

  • Sonto May 13, 2010, 8:21 am

    I have been suffering from this enxiety for some time now, I susually freeze and also feels like I will crush into the car approching form my right hand side. I experienced the same thing again this morning and the only thing that saved me was prayer. I started praying. I think it is about time I seek professional help.

  • Tori May 21, 2010, 12:15 pm

    Hello, last year I was in an accident where our vehicle flipped over 3 times. I am now 17 years of age and I should be driving already, some days I want too but other days I can’t bring myself to even think about it without having a panic attack. What should I do?

  • LeAnne May 27, 2010, 10:15 am

    I’m afraid of the whole experience of driving. One, I’m afraid that since I’ve waited so long I’m embarrassed that I’m just now starting to drive and I’m 26. Two, I’m afraid of being responsible for other people on the road and in the same vehicle as me. Third, I’ve been in 3 wrecks. And last but not least I’m embarrassed that my skills aren’t where they should be for my age……

  • Khaled June 3, 2010, 7:18 pm

    Fear controls me while i am driving as i am a beginner driver i had one accident small one but i couldn’t sleep that night thinking of it , parking is my big problem so i guess i will follow that program to overcome my driving fear

  • jose June 5, 2010, 2:57 pm

    practice, practice, practice. some of you have been in accidents, thank god everyones ok. i would look at it like riding a bike, you fell but it was no big deal, you gotta get back up, i am conquering my fear of driving one day at a time, its working, i feared going the wrong way or making a mistake on the road, that would cost me my life or someone else for that matter, however, what we are dealing with here is negative risk. everyday we take risks, just depends on how you look at it. risk is in the eye of the beholder, i agree with the article above, you gotta change your thinking, and you all can do it, hell i can and will do it. think about about how many risks you all take each and everyday, you be surprised how you managed to survive : ) after you do that its time to get busy, get a freind or pay for practice driving classes tell the instructor hey im afraid, let him show you the techniques calmly, and then do it over and over and reassure yourself, that you can do this. has anyone here ever looked at other drivers, i think its sometimes hilariouse, they come in all shapes and sizes some look clueless, others look confident, still others look cautiouse, and so on, bottom line they are out there doing it while we are stuck in fear, fear is good but common we gotta live! posting this has just helped me : )

  • jose June 5, 2010, 3:12 pm

    all of you need a good laugh. i dont know you but you all seem like people with great personalities, and i just want to encourage you all you can do it. its funny i have a fear of driving, but we are just gonna have to find out what happens, because life, is full of risks, and if i dont get over this fear of driving then i risk the joys of coming and going as i please wherever i want, to big of a risk if you ask me, but then again thats just me. 🙂 guys im not trying to be insensative about this issue, its real, and seriouse, but i know you can all do this.
    laugh and then go drive.

  • Brian June 17, 2010, 6:43 pm

    I have a pretty serious fear of driving my car. It all started when some man in a white pickup truck tried to cut me off when two lanes merged into one, then he followed me into my neighborhood and got out of his car, and threatened to kill me for about 30 minutes. He was twice my size (definitely overweight) and liked Harley Davidson motorcycles. He talked about how he would tie a cinder block to my foot and throw me in a lake and how easy that would be. At this point, I was scared out of my mind. I surely thought I was going to be killed by this man.

    Another incident came when someone on a motorcycle cut in front of me by using the shoulder to get to the front of the pack to a red light, so he could be first when it turned green. He ended up looking both ways at the intersection, and ran the red light. I wanted to get the license plate of this guy and report him to the local police for such a major traffic offense, but then the motorcyclist threatened me through my open window and said “you don’t want to mess with someone like me”, and then proceeded to speed up and pass six or seven other cars by using the shoulder again.

    Then, one time, I was getting into my car to go leave for a movie. I had parked it at a school to go play football with a buddy of mine on the field….the school, which was nearby the onramp to go to the next town, had a good movie theater. As I was leaving to go catch the movie with my friend, a man dressed as a police officer approached my car when I was pulling out of the parking lot. He jumped right in front of my car and I swurved to get out of the way. I didn’t know if he was a policeman or not because he didn’t show me any badge, nor did I see a police cruiser nearby, and his actions of attempting to stop the car with his own body seemed like it could have been just a weirdo on drugs, so I freaked out. As I swurved around him to get out of his way, he threw his maglight into my back passenger window, which shattered and cut my face, the maglight sitting in my back seat. I didn’t know what to do, so I went home. I ended up realizing he was a legitimate police officer when my friend, who was stopped at gunpoint by the same officer, allowed the policeman to use his cell phone to call me, and he left a message saying he wanted his maglight back. I invited the police over to my house and they thought I was attempting to run over the police officer, but I honestly didn’t want to do that, that’s why I swurved out of the way. When they were interrogating me, asking why I didn’t stop, I told them honestly that I didn’t think the man was a real cop, since I saw no badge or police vehicle (until they came over to my house).

    All three of these events have culminated to me not wanting to drive, any more. I haven’t driven my car, or any other car, in almost a year, for fear of driving it. Also, I have a couple speeding tickets, which will stay on my record permanently if I get another one before I turn 23. I am 21 right now.

    I am currently taking 4mg of clonazepam and 200mg of seroquel at night, because I have lingering fears about that man in my first story, coming to my house to kill me, so I can never sleep at night, and I had some really bad panic attacks, ending in either losing my lunch, having full body shakes for fifteen minutes at a time while also feeling as if I am going to have a heart attack and I have trouble breathing. Sometimes the panic attacks are so bad that I literally cannot move. It’s like I’m playing dead, except shaking all over. Since taking the medication I have been prescribed, I haven’t had many panic attacks–I usually only have them if I am in an unfamiliar setting with people I don’t trust well. I also have test anxiety, which means I cannot fall asleep the night before a test.

    So…having this fear of driving has caused me to come up with a whole round of excuses as to why I “can’t” drive, that I tell friends, who want to hang out and seem a bit perturbed that I don’t have my own form of transportation. Most of my days I live out at home, since I’m terrified to go out by myself in my car, unless I am picked up by a trusting friend or driven by my parents or older sister. It makes me feel as if I have no independence whatsoever. It also doesn’t help that my car looks like hell since I dented the front end badly and never replaced it (don’t have enough money/don’t want to do it/would rather buy a different car), when my foot slipped off the brake pedal at a red light and hit the gas while I was in 1st, causing me to slam the back of the car in front of me.

    I think the only way I am going to start driving again is if I get a new car–the old one is haunted with bad memories.

  • Brittany July 6, 2010, 11:55 am

    I have a fear of driving.. i always think someone is going to crash into me or i am going to crash into someone else.. i did these things and it helped me alot i know have more confidence in my driving thank you!!

  • Amanda July 6, 2010, 3:24 pm

    Hello I am 26 with a family and have let my fear of driving take over our whole life. We have had to miss out on a lot because of my fear. I have never even tried to get my license. But recently I have decided to overcome my driving phobia. I hope to do so by trying anything possible to achieve this. whttp://overcomingmydrivingphobia.blogspot.com/ould love to hear others advice and stories.

  • Fany July 8, 2010, 4:21 pm

    Hi , I’m terryfing about the idea of driving. I’m 23 years old and I can’t help feel fear when I’m driving. I don’t know what to do. Really,, I don’t know; and the worst part of all of this, is the fact that as long as the days passed, I get myself crasiest about these. I mean I already crash my car against a pole, another car, I also crash my mom’s car…. helppppp I think that I never going to learn,,,

  • Veronica July 13, 2010, 5:04 pm

    Hello i have had a fear of driving for years. i dont like free ways bissy roads and bridges.. it has came to the point that i have to pull over and go back home.. and i will not go on free ways i freak out and i have to get off at the next exit.. Iam a Military wife and i have to take my hubby to and from work and i need help with my fear of driving.

  • Bulelwa July 19, 2010, 8:43 am

    I had anxiety attacks while i was driving, and now it has developed into a fear of driving.

  • Khanyi July 23, 2010, 1:51 am

    iam a new driver just got my licence 3 weeks back, 1. my car always switched off everytime ia m trying to move off from traffic lights, please help 2. i have a fear of driving on the hill especially on traffic, my fear is that my new car will reverse to another car of just switched off. can anyone tell me what iam doing wrong.

  • Elizabeth July 27, 2010, 10:53 pm


    I am afraid of driving because I am afraid of causing an accident killing somebody,or face jail time. Just the taught of any of this happening frightens me enough not to even want to try to learn how to drive but my situatuon is now forcing me to drive and now I need to.

  • ruth July 29, 2010, 12:09 pm

    i am always scared when i want to drive

  • elissa cruz July 31, 2010, 11:53 pm

    I’m 40 years old, when i was 17 i was learning to drive and everything looks very simple. until a tragedy happened in my family. my older brother was killed(not driving related). one day i was taking my driving lesson as usual, and the person that killed my bro passed rigth in from of me looking at me like if wanted to harm me. that was enough for me to panic and ran away leaving my instructor cluless. years past by, i used to live in new york and i really didn’t need to drive, so that was the perfect excuse not to drive. now i’m living in fl, where i have to have a car, well i had to add that i had a husband that always discouraged me from driving and doing other things,so that contribuited to my fear. i’m not afraid of having a crash or driving on certaing places, i just avoid the idea of having to drive, just to get on the driver sit make me think about the past situation,this has been very frustrating to me. i,m a professional and have to depend on my friends and family to drive me every where…it’s not a good feeling! this is the very first time i talk about this, if someone has a advice it will be appreciated!!

  • Selene August 2, 2010, 1:50 pm

    Elissa, I am a 39 year old woman. I learned how to drive at 37. I was living in other country and I did not have the necessity to drive. But in USA you have to drive.

    I had a minor car accident few weeks ago (very minor but it took away all my strenght and confidence while driving).

    And I am very affraid of driving. But I have to. I have to work and pick up my daughter from school. I do not have alternative.

    Every day I pray, I feel so afraid and helpless. I am thinking in taking some driving classes. Sometimes the relatives can not help you and you need help from a professional.

    I do not know if this will help me, I hope so. I recomend you this too. Go to traffic school, find a good instructor.

    Buena suerte, amiga.


  • Betzblue August 17, 2010, 9:09 am

    I have “safety zones” that I can drive without any problems ( say 15 miles away from home) but I cannot drive on freeways, or in heavy traffic. I will take back roads and drive an hour getting to my destination instead of dealing with the “panic attacks”. I have been having these for 20+ years. I refuse to take drugs so I stay away from ” professional help”. Many of my friends & family used to say that I was making it up/ no one has panic attacks while driving”. Now I can see that other people do have them too. Thank You.

  • Mallory August 18, 2010, 10:34 am

    hi, i have such a fear of driving that im 24 and have never fully finnished a driving test. i can pass the written part, but when it comes to actually driving a car i can’t do it. and simply chicken out. im so embarrased by this fear and my husband nags me about it almost everyday. i really do want to start driving but my fear is so bad that i jsut cant bring myself to even get on a highway without feeling like im going to be sick. my pulse starts to race and i even become confused on where the gas & break are. how do i overcome this fear… i always think that ppl think im immature for this. but truth is they just dont understand.

  • Tilkesh August 19, 2010, 6:00 am

    Hello, I have been experiencing driving anxiety since the time I got the delivery of my brand new car. Things were almost good during my training days. I assumed that I have mastered driving. I even passed the driving test and was issued licence to drive. But, when I sat for the first time in my car, I almost rammed it because I pushed accelerator for brakes. The scars on my car influenced more fear in me. I have been gathering guts and driving for the last one week and have been stopping in the middle of busy road. Can you imagine the faces of pissed-off drivers. Sweat still tinkles down, with AC in full. I have always feared that someone gonna bang from behind or I may damage someone else’s car. I have got the guts to keep on trying, but patience is what I lack. Please suggest how to build up patience…

  • Brenda August 19, 2010, 5:44 pm

    I have a fear of driving before I get into a car. However once I’m in the car I’m fine

  • tilly August 26, 2010, 5:42 am

    I am 48 years old i am really afraid to drive i used to drive very well but one day i was with my husband on the high way and i was driving at 120km/ hr and then he shouted to me and say drive hard i had a panic packed the car a side and since then i very afraid to drive i try very much and sometimes is good and sometimes not and at the high way a never try to do it since now its almost five years and the fear is still the same somebody can help me. My husband is becoming older and i am afraid if one day he can no more drive.

  • NenaTX September 1, 2010, 3:17 pm

    Im 21 yrs old and I got my permit when I was 19 yrs old. Im now married and my husband wants me to learn how to drive so that when he gets deployed I can get around. I’m so afriad to drive. Yes I’ve driven a few times but as soon as he points out I’ve done soemthing wrong I give up and I don’t want to drive anymore. I’m afriad of other cars, I’m afriad of getting on the beltway, and the highway. Can someone help me out?

  • jeannie September 5, 2010, 8:19 pm

    I was afraid to drive and didn’t get my license until I was 20. Believe I just as afraid as the next person, but let me give you a pep
    talk. You might be feeling like you don’t have control of the car, but you have to remind yourself that you do. Take it slow. Drive as many flat country roads as you can find or places where there is little traffic. Push yourself to practice & the more you do the better you will feel. The fear you have at first is worth the freedom you will have later. Looking back it was silly for me to be afraid. But I do understand this fear. Most Importantly- Ask God to take this fear away. I(YOU) can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Phillipians 4:13.

  • Jessica September 7, 2010, 11:25 pm

    I used to feel very confident about driving until i actually started doing it. My fear started with when i moved to to the u.s.a. My hubby kept telling me that i would fail the driving test. Fail i did. It just stuck in my head. I made myself clear the test. Then i fought to drive our one and only car so that i could feel independent. He wouldn’t share. Then i bought myself a car to drive. On the second day of driving my own car i had a minor accident. I got over that too. After four months someone else ran into me at a red light. Since then i have been frozen with fear. I feel as if the air is sucked out of me when i have to drive. I avoid driving. I paid a lot for my car and parking, now it just stands there and i don’t have the guts to drive it. I take transit to work which i find very shameful as no one at my work takes transit. I know i own a car and should start driving but i just don’t have the guts in me anymore. I carry my car key with me all day round thinking that courage will strike me once again. I don’t think anyone can help me with this…..i have to over come my fears on my own. Sharing this on the net helps me open up and lets me know that my problem is shared by many.

  • Dave September 17, 2010, 5:36 am

    Hi I am a shamed to say I am afraid of driving, I wAs a very confident driver am a hospital manager and need to drive all over the country as part of my job however I have had two accidents about 100 yards from my house we the same family one hit me with a tractor and the other with a 4 x 4 a year to the day, my anxiety caused me a week ago to reverse into a wAll my family and friends think am soft but I can’t bring myself to drive

  • Amanda September 27, 2010, 4:02 pm

    Hello, I’m Amanda. I suffer from Depression, Bipolar, and Anxiety. I got my driver’s licence in 2008. I used to love driving. i was a great driver. Then all of a sudden I started to feel unsafe behind the wheel. I am now afraid to even think of driving. I try to do little things like, drive around my trailer park, or park the car. but i just have these terrible anxiety attacks to the point that I start to cry. I want to try driving again. But I just cant bring myself to get behind the wheel. I’ve had one close encounter with another car, but no accidents. I was a very careful driver. I passed my drivers lesson on the first try. I loved driving. I loved the freedom. Then it just stopped. I just dont feel safe driving a vehicle. I want to start driving again, but everytime I think about driving.. i just cant.

  • Holly September 27, 2010, 10:25 pm

    I am 24. I grew up in a big city where I drove on huge highways for long distances ll the time. When I was about 21, I started experiencing panic attacks on the highway. I saw a counselor about this and other anxiety issues and they brought up a good point. When I feel panicky, I feel as though I will crash the car or mentally/physically lose control. The doctor told me that panicking makes your heart race and this causes you to be more alert than usual. I’m not going to faint or pass out while driving, I’m just psyching myself out. I moved to the mountains and was fine driving except on highways. Well, recently my fear is back and I can’t help but think that it is related to to other issues I am having. I’m glad to see that I am not the only one with these issues. We can get past this! We are all strong and just need to remember that we deserve to be good and calm drivers just as much as everyone else! Good luck, and thanks for reading

  • mala October 5, 2010, 11:30 pm

    My mother died in a hit and run when i was 12 years old i was with her when they took her to the hospital ,but she died on the way to the hospital. Since then i was was scared to driver a car.Now that i am 30 i force my self to enroll in a driving school when through all the required lessons before i learn to drive with my instructor . But each time i sit behind the drivers seat all i can think about is what happend to my mother .It’s gotten to the point where i quit my classes after 9 sessions 2 hour each sessions. Nobody understands how i feel my friends and colleague calls me crazy because i am letting an incident that happend 18 year ago to overtake me , they say that i should have gotten over it and be matured, but truth is they just don’t understand because they not in my shoes . Help me because i want to learn to drive a car but each time my fear control me with a tight grip.Please help me to be free from this fear?

  • amel October 16, 2010, 12:12 pm

    l’m 29 and l used to live in another country so didn’t havr to drive but since l came to the USA and live in like an island l have nowhere to go without a car but when l’m driving l think always about an accident that happend to me with my father we were ok but l fear to hit someone or a car hit me and thinking about driving in highways “””””””” my heart stops l really need help may life is boring

  • universe October 16, 2010, 10:43 pm

    im also afraid to drive i was in a minor accident and then my best friend mother two cusins and a aunt died in a car crash. and i think because im always doing something wrong i will case an accident and hurt someone else or my self. im 34 years old ive taking classes to drive but 2 failed the driving part. i think im not focused or mature enuf to drive. it keeps me from alot of things and damit im tired of it. i miss out of what the world has to offer me from not driving.. i will not lose i will drive 2011

  • Linda Tsu October 25, 2010, 10:38 am

    I had a big panic attack whild driving 2 months ago and has had difficulty driving since then. I would shake and have massive panic attacks, but I continued to force myself to drive. I came across a fear of driving hypnosis session by hypnosis downloads and tried it. After several sessions, I feel better. I still get the anticipatory anxiety, but it has helped tremendously in the actual act of driving. There is hope. Know that this will pass and there is a lot of resources/help out there. Deep breaths. “This too shall pass.”

  • Maria October 26, 2010, 8:54 pm

    I’m a 52 year old female. I have a phobia of riding on highways… driving or as a passenger. My uncle was killed in a crash on a highway and my brother was seriously injured in a separate accident. My phobia really kicked when a piece of wood flew off of a truck that I was following. I swerved to avoid it…drove off the highway and flipped several times!

    I fear everything about highways including…the high rate of speed, on/off ramps, heavy traffic, not being able to control the cars around me, being trapped between semi-trucks and trucks carrying cargo of any kind.

    I drive back roads too avoid freeways…even it takes me twice as long to get to my destination. I’ll probably never get on a freeway again. And that’s ok with me! I can live just fine with out them!

  • wole October 27, 2010, 5:42 pm

    I am not a new driver but, just of recent, I developed fear and anxiety in driving my car.It seems the car will always tumble any time i am driving it.I am really troubled in mind on how to overcome this fear.In fact I like driving a lot.

  • aarmeti November 5, 2010, 4:02 pm

    Actually, I am more afraid of other drivers than being worried about my own driving skills. I drive an old car since I cannot afford leasing a new car. Other drivers behave really rude with me while driving!
    Even if I do a very small mistake (A VERY SMALL mistake! such as starting to move with a small hesitation) They horn, and sometimes give me a very rude look and insult! They don’t even care if the person they insult is Old , woman, disable or what?
    It is really sad because I have become totally truamatize! sometimes I want to cry while driving! I give up my right for everybody to change line and drive in front of me! I am kind and patient to everyone! Then, I see this will be the appriciation they give me : Hatefull look and rude words!

  • Pamela Cooper November 12, 2010, 5:31 pm

    I havent driven for 5 years, have had quite a few panick attacks and feel terrified behind the wheel, my father was killed in a car crash in 1970 at the lights, and I panick when approaching them, but I am good driver and my reactions are very good, I have been out with my husban d on short trips, I thing my fathers accident has something to do with it but would love to get out on my own, I am not confident enough to drive alone, I keep thinking I will b reak down or cause an accident, when I am with my husband driving he says my driving is spot on, he cant understand why I cant drive.

  • Samantha November 15, 2010, 2:55 am

    I’m 24, and i have a fear of driving it seems like i get very nervous before i get in the car then once im driving im usually ok but anytime i have the chance to get behind the wheel i make excuses because as much as i want to get my licenses and need to get them i feel like it would just be easier if i didnt. This has put a strain on my marriage so i am writing this in hopes of facing my fear and moving on with my life. Please pray for me as i will be praying for u all.

  • Purvi November 17, 2010, 6:01 pm

    I have a strong fear of driving in US, I am living here from almost 5 years and have always passed the written tests but not able to take the driving test.
    I am from India, I used to drive a car from age of 18, never had any problems, i m a good driver. Even today I drive in India from the moment i land there. its breeze.
    But when i come back here in US, i don’t know what has happened.
    When i first came to this country after getting married, i never came with the fear of driving, but my husband was a very hasty and bad driver, and i was always so tensed in the car. And i was mortified by the laws of driving and cops, it all felt like hell, as he used to get many tickets and it grew more and more fear into me.
    and he was pressuring me to drive everyday, and one day he really pushed me, living me with the car on the road and i had to drive, worst day of my life….i just parked in the nearest parking lot and couldn’t stop crying…..and almost vomited when came back home. my whole body was shaking, and my heart felt like it will come out any minute……i felt so helpless and humiliated….then he used always emotionally push me like ” what if something happens to him, and I won’t be able to drive and take him to the hospital”……i was feeling so much pressure, i was like – find another wife who drives…..i don’t want to live here and suffer anyways……things got much better afterwards, he started understanding, and have never said a word about it since a year……..and even i have forgotten about all that along with the need of driving. I work from home, i don’t go out, i m easily managing my life without my own need of driving, kind of dependent – but happily.
    But whenever i see other newer and younger people- who has never driven in their country starts driving here, i feel bad for myself. Because i m like a different person in my own country ( where i m on wheels all the time- totally fearless and independent and outgoing…) pretty weird, generally most of the people hate and fear driving in India, instead i love driving there. And i can’t drive here, where everyone else feels safe and easy driving.
    I know that my fear is due to a bad start with the whole driving and cops scenario in this country due to my husband ( even he has become very responsible and safe driver now, i don’t hold the handle of the door now and my body muscle are relaxed when i m in the car ), but still i have some fear left – like i won’t be able to remember the rules of driving- it seems like too many things to remember and look out the signs and directions, it all seems tooo confusing to me, i don’t know why. and also worried about getting tickets.

  • christina November 23, 2010, 5:43 pm

    im 25 years old and ive never had a license…ive been a passenger in a few accidents, ive drove a few times on back roads and im good at it but i still always vision bad accidents happening, i think my main problem is i never had a parent to help me with the driving thing my mother is 48 and has never drove either i dont know what to do because this fear is causing me to be depressed and bored with my life!

  • Michelle November 24, 2010, 9:28 am

    I’ve been there, and believe me, if I can get over my fear of driving, anyone can! I was in my late 20’s, and it was past time for me to get my license! I was even talking to someone about it for a while. (It helped a little, but not much). I used to avoid situations where I’d have to drive, and would only ride if I knew I wouldn’t have to drive. I know some of you have families, and don’t have a license. That’s gotta be hard. It’s actually because of my fiance (now my husband) that I’m driving now. I told him about my fear, and eventually he got me driving, because he was a calming influence on me. So, if I can drive, you can too. (Although, I don’t like driving at night in unfamiliar areas, and I don’t like driving too close to the dividing walls on freeways-other than that, I actually prefer the freeway). Good luck!

  • EJ November 26, 2010, 11:52 am

    I’m 21, I have a permit, but I still cannot drive very well. I do not drive at all. I’m tired of putting myself through this. I haven’t been practicing at all. After reading these comments, I feel somewhat reassured that I’m not the only one out there. I’ve never been in an accident, but there’s something that comes over me when I get behind the wheel. I just got my permit at 21, no telling when or if I will ever get my license. I’ve taken a few driving lessons before, they helped somwhat, but it was not consistent. There were only once a month for about 4 months. I want my mom to teach me, but she makes me feel even worst, she makes me feel even more anxiety and nervous and panicky. Because she feels that way towards me, but she is the only one that I have to help me drive. I have no other option. I hate this, I want to drive, I really do, I just simply am too nervous, afraid, and have too much anxiety, I’ll be 22 next and still wil be a passenger and riding the bus. But I have to do this for myself and no one else. Because I will be behind the wheel. I want to, but then I don’t want to. I want to, but I’m always avoiding it and never ask my mom can we go driving. But if I don’t I will never drive. I cannot keep this up any longer, I need so much help! People just don’t know exactly how I truly feel and it just kills me inside each day. I just have to get out there and do it! That’s all I can do!

  • RJ November 27, 2010, 8:55 am

    I’m 22 years old and want to stop taking the bus. Since I have a beard now it gets harder to claim the youth discount, and the bus fair for adults is 2 dollars one way! When it comes to avoiding my license, I get away with my excuses the first few times, then after a while people get frustrated…i get frustrated…having ask mom to pick me up at the bus station…the person I’m going out with stops answering my calls…and I end up late to interviews, weddings, and important appointments.

    My high school boyfriend passed away in a car accident…but even before that happened, I was terrified of driving. Once I even think about driving, I begin to worry. I worry about doing something wrong and getting into an accident and getting hurt, or even worse being responsible for someone else getting hurt. I worry about my car failing me on the freeway or a steep hill. I worry about doing something wrong and getting a ticket…I dont have money to pay no damn ticket!! I have so many recurring nightmares of driving into things…driving off of things…or my favorite…nightmares of my car having faulty brakes. UGH!

    this was a good read and finding I’m not alone in this was such a relief and makes me very hopeful. I’m also hopeful for all of you. I’m going to go and get a drivers handbook when i head out tomorrow and just…take things slow.

  • Barb November 28, 2010, 5:57 pm

    Hi, For the last 10 years I was in a very insecure relationship with a man who had to control everything. Well, he never let me drive. He always took me wherever I needed to go. But I had no freedom of my own. Anyway, he passed away suddenly and now I HAVE to drive. He made me so afraid that now I can barely sit in the driver seat without feeling a panic attack. I have tried over and over. I know that once I get over the initial fear, I will be ok. But I just cannot seem to be able to even back the car out.

  • EP December 7, 2010, 1:51 am

    Strangely enough, I would rather drive a spaceship than a modern car. People who insult others on the road have gotten on my nerves in the past, mostly because no one has ever insulted me during youth in such ways…fortunately, I have become less sensitive. The problem is that I cannot tolerate such people on the road, and would confront one if they tried to go on an extreme.

    I am not certain if there is an individually strong memory that causes this stimulus in me, other than the many experiences that defined driving as being a mundane activity full of harsh people that constantly tell us that our abilities are not sufficient.

    Apparently, the fear is caused by mental impressions that grow strong when one obeys their false warnings. It is like a lack of understanding concerning the main mask hiding the reality of our experiences. They come and they go…only our mind keeps them alive in a false format. We close our eyes, the images pass away, we feel that we must not care…the fear subsides more and more when we unidentify with those images and feelings.

    We know those feelings arise, so why have them control our life?

  • Estelle December 24, 2010, 3:54 am

    Hi I have a fear of falling over when I drive in busy places.I don’t like mountain passes and freeway also on bridgers. Even as a passenger it gets scary. Its getting to me alot and all my family live about an hour away from my home. I can’t get there and see them.I have to wait for them to come and see me or get a lift. We should be free from this crippling anxiety . I really need to get back on track and go out and have fun some again. I know….. I think to much , wish there was a switch that you could turn it off. Then it would be easy.

  • Lissy December 26, 2010, 9:10 pm

    I have gotten my permit twice and let it expire, not sure why I fear driving. I guess after working in a rehabilitation center for almost 7 years, most people that came in were there as a result of a car accident. Driving takes alot of skills and you can be the best driver out there but some nut will be the one running into you. Not only are you watching out for your life and the ones in the car but for the idiots that like to cut you off, speed or tailgate you. I just moved to Florida 5 months ago and definitely need to drive. Lost 10 pounds just walking to and from places. It’s great to walk but summer is coming and I refuse to walk in 100 degrees weather. I am motivated and nothing will stop me. I have the car just need my permit to drive. I have driven before but my instructor put me in heavy traffic on the second day. By the third day I was driving in the highway. My fear came from being in the highway and not feeling in control of the situation yet. If I don’t get my permit by next week I refuse to stay in Florida. If anyone can give me positive feedback please do so on how I can overcome this fear will gladly be appreciated.

  • Teresa December 29, 2010, 7:29 pm

    I am 31 and I’ve been hearing impaired for most of my life. I got my drivers license at 16 just like everyone else, and I always dreamed of having the freedom to drive. I remember being 17 years old when I finally got to drive my paren’ts car, and I used to drive to and from work in it. One day I got off work and drove to get gas, before going back and picking up my mom from her later shift. Just as I was driving to get on the road, this white truck came out of nowhere fast and t-boned me on the drivers side of the car.
    I remember thinking, “Is this happening?” as the car wobbled to a stop. The windshield and the drivers side window had shattered all over inside the car and on me. I didn’t get a scratch but the car was totaled. It completely damaged any confidence I had in myself once I saw the massive damage it did to my parents car.
    Going home was difficult when our friend gave me and my mom a lift home, because I knew I would have to face my dad. My mom was fine as long as I was ok but my dad had this look of dissapointment on his face that I’ll never forget. I remember dad used to always tell me that Deaf people didn’t belong behind the wheel of a car, he used to tell me that everyday, to a point where I let myself believe it. When I had the accident, it was like I was proving him that he was right all along. Its been nearly 14 years. I drive off and on when I need to, in places close by and I try to avoid going long distances, but the ongoing fear has never went away. I hate driving on freeways, I hate getting lost in places I dont recognise, and I hate the feeling of dread whenever I drive, my palms sweat, my forehead sweats, and I start to hypervintilate-people used to tell me that it was all in my head-and it probably is, but this feeling is more real and more present than any other feeling I could ever describe. This fear has crippled me from having freedom. Its a feeling of helplessness and needyness that makes me feel so trapped, and this fear is like a living prison on wheels.
    I’m now a mom and a wife and I would like to be able to drive without ever doubting myself again, or letting this fear control my life.
    I want to make my family proud of me, I want my daughter to see her mother being able to overcome this so that I can show her that its possible to do anything you put your mind to, even overcoming a phobia. I want my husband to see me being more independant.

    Can anyone offer some advice?

  • cmom January 3, 2011, 7:51 pm

    Hi. I’m 23 and I am crippled with fear when it comes to driving. I avoid it at all cost. I can drive around my neighborhood a little but interstate driving I have never been able to do. I don’t know how I got a liscense. It took many tries and I didn’t get it till I was 19. I feel terrible on so many levels. I hate being dependent on everybody else and I am so scarred I will have to take my child to the hospital some day and won’t be able to. I have never even been in a bad accident! I loved living in the city for a short time but not being able to drive prevented me from getting a job. I’m sort of relieved to hear there are other out there like me. Thanks for sharing your stories and I am going to try this technique immediately.

  • Naomi January 7, 2011, 1:03 pm

    I have been driving ever since 1996 without any problems. I would go whever i wished to ike shopping malls, and visiting friends. In 2003 i was driving back from the library about 45 mintes to my place. It was on a freeway and it was at night, i struggled all the way i felt like my car was going to overturn into the extreme lane and felt as if i was going to die. I was so terrified i could see the clouds approaching my windscreen. Ever since then, i avoid driving on freeways as i often have this terrifying fear. my life has changed completely and beginning to hate my cars!!! what a punishment.

  • Angelina January 11, 2011, 3:51 pm


    I have been afraid of driving even before i got to drive it started when I was only 15 my boyfriend was older and he had just got his car we went for a ride at night i think it was 2am lol doing about 70 or more i would say we came up on a 90′ turn and flipped landing on the hood in someones yard and it happened again when I was 17 with my Brother. Both times I wasn’t driving but now every time I get in the car I freeze like I have no control. My heart starts hurting and I get sick to my stomach. Its frustrating I have 2 kids now and I feel so hopeless to be a mom like I should be for them. I really want to be there and drive them around, bring them to school or to a friends house. My body locks up it is so hard to even go down to the store less them a mile away. I don’t know what to do. I am afraid I will be like this forever..

  • nozipho January 13, 2011, 2:34 am

    after giving birth to my third child i developed this extreme fear of driving ,a minor curves feels like i m going to loose control or the car is going to fall over ,DRIVING ON FREEWAYS IS A NIGHTMARE. Desparately need help , this is badly impacting on my social and proffessional life

  • tess February 1, 2011, 3:33 pm

    Hi, i have a fear of driving for the last year.Driving on main roads im afraid, never had a problem with them before!!! i need help……Sick of other people having to drop me places…

  • Anna February 1, 2011, 6:05 pm

    I got into a small accident the first day I passed my license test. Stupid huh? It wasn’t anything big but since the feeling I got from having to call my dad and see him pull up, wondering how much damage I did, the fear that will most likely always stay with him whenever I drive, makes me want to NEVER drive again. After that day, I haven’t driven by myself at all. I’ve driven with my dad a couple of times but that’s all. Basically its been 3 months since having a license and I’ve gone no where alone. The worst part is that my best friend got her license after driving with a instructor for about a month and now she always drives and gets to do things on her own and is so independent. I wish that could be me.

  • Emily February 4, 2011, 10:48 am

    Brenda, i’m the same way…i have fear before i get into the car, once i’m in i’m okay…but that fear prevents me from driving more often…it’s been very difficult for me to overcome this fear…it is very easy for people to say it is very easy to drive…how come you don’t drive? but fear is fear…

  • Kerynn February 15, 2011, 4:03 pm

    I’m really happy I found this today. I’m 21 years old and I’m scared to drive.

    I got my permit when I was 17. When I took my driving test for my license, I failed. I already had no confidence as a driver before that. I still managed to drive a little after but then I had a very stressful time in my life. It was very emotional, and I was depressed and my anxiety level skyrocketed. I haven’t driven a car in 2 years. It is a bad cycle. The longer I go without driving, the harder it is. I can’t even move someones car in the driveway for them. Its holding me back in life because I can’t start college without a license. I also don’t ask friends to hang out because I feel bad that they will have to drive. I’ve lost good friends because of this.

    I really don’t know what to do.

  • Joe February 20, 2011, 2:12 am

    There is no reason why I should be afraid to drive the freeways. I did it for years and have never had an accident. But I deal with anxiety so sometimes I don’t for long periods of time.

  • chikky February 22, 2011, 10:57 am

    i have this huge fear for driving, i feel that if i drive i might crash on someones car or someone is going to crash my own car, which is realy scaery. pls could u help me help me couse i really want to drive thanks

  • Cindy February 23, 2011, 11:17 pm

    I feel like my whole life is the way it is because I sont have my license. Im 23 and terrified to drive. It has been impossible for me to find a job that fits my husbands schedule so he can take me to work. Because of this we are living with his family right now while he works part time and goes to school. I feel so stupid when I even sit in the drivers seat I start crying and think all these crazy things could happen. I actually picture a wheel of a semi flying of the semi and hitting me while im driving or me having no control over my vehicle. Whats worse is no one supports me except my husband and even hes getting a little unsupportive. I constantly have to hear “Get over it youre 23”. Ive lost friends over this because Im embarassed about needing a ride all the time. No one understands what im going through and im just ready to get over this but I feel like Ill never be able to drive without sweating or crying the whole time. I hate this feeling.

  • Jan February 28, 2011, 5:49 pm

    My phobia of driving is very embarrassing to me. I feel like I am worthless because of it, I haven’t always been afraid, it has just been for the past 2 years when i moved from a small town in Tennessee to NJ. I think the change is what caused my phobia. It is to the point now that when my boyfriend even brings it up I just get anxious and upset. My hands get sweaty even thinking about it. The last time I drove, I made it about 4 miles up the street then I had to pull over and let my passenger take over, I never felt so helpless. I just want to get over this and get my life back.

  • Joy March 3, 2011, 2:28 pm

    I am a 33 yr old and I have never had my license. The thought of driving absolutely terrifies me. It’s not so much that I’m afraid of hurting someone or getting hurt myself, but more of a financial fear. I’m afraid of the money I would have to pay, not being able to fix the car or buy another one if needed. I know insurance is there but I still have that fear. My driving skills are not bad. I feel so ashamed that I am this old and can’t drive. It has put a burden on my family and I because we have to live in places near the bus line and I always have to ask people to drive me everywhere. I am going to try my hardest to overcome this because, due to recent events, it has become even more necessary for me to learn, but it is so hard. I just cry about it.

  • Laura March 5, 2011, 3:22 pm

    I’m almost 22 years old and I have been driving since I was 18. I was the last out of all of my friends to get my license and have always relied on others to drive me places. I still will no go onto the freeway and don’t feel comfortable or confident driving in unfamiliar locations.

    I have never been in an accident or lost a family member due to one, but ever since I was a little girl, I feared that I would lose a loved one in a car accident. This fear continues to this day and I constantly worry about family members getting into fatal wrecks when they don’t arrive home on time.

    I am an aspiring filmmaker/film writer and the reality of my situation is that I need to be able to commute from Orange County into L.A. This terrifies me, I imagine myself getting into an accident on the freeway and killing someone else or myself.

    I am ashamed to tell my peers that I don’t know how, or rather, refuse to drive on the freeway. I have missed out on opportunities to go out with friends and have new experiences because of this fear. I always have to rely on others to “carpool” with anytime we are traveling any distance. I have missed out on networking opportunities in my field because I am too afraid to drive to the locations. I have been embarrassed by having my parents drop me off when needing to go to other locations for school projects and the like.

    I always make some lame excuse about my “bad sense of direction” which is a reality and also contributes to my anxiety of driving in unfamiliar areas. I generally only commute to and from school/work or to local stores and restaurants to meet friends or run errands. I still feel insecure and nervous when someone else is in the car with me. The first time I had a friend drive with me after getting my license was a very embarrassing experience. I was so distracted and nervous that I hit a curb which caused one of my tire rims to fall off and I almost turned on a “no turn on red” right turn.

    Even still, I feel anxiety as I approach my school because there is a lot of traffic and students and I fear that I will make a costly or fatal mistake. I have also never learned to parallel park and have anxiety over parking in general. I have gotten better at parking in parking lots, but I still have anxiety if I can’t find a spot right away. I start to sweat and my heart starts pounding and as much as I try to tell myself to relax and take deep breaths, it doesn’t help.

    While learning how to drive and then shortly after getting my license I had dreams about getting into car accidents. I don’t really have these dreams any more, but the fear is always in the back of my mind. I often feel uncomfortable on the freeway as a passenger, I feel safest when my family members are driving, but sometimes till clutch the side of the car and can’t seem to relax. There have been a few “close calls” while driving with friends on the freeway where someone suddenly comes into our lane and we almost collide, but still no wreck. I have never even been in a fender bender or witnessed a horrific crash, but still live with this fear and embarrassment daily.

    I want to rise above it, and be able to feel like a confident driver. I think it would help me feel more independent and less self conscious. I want to stop making lame excuses and bumming rides off of other people. I don’t want this irrational and ridiculous fear to hinder my career and my happiness, and well being, but I am scared to face my fear head on. I fear that I will never overcome it.

  • Cassandra March 29, 2011, 1:13 pm

    Hi my name is Cassandra and when I was 15 I had a car wreck and flipped the blazer I was driving. I had three other people with me and they all had minor stuff happen to them thank God. I would never have been able to forgive myself if they would have been seriously injured. I on the other hand almost died and ever since I have had this fear of driving. That was about 6 years ago now. I don’t trust myself to drive and I don’t trust other people on the road either. I Have drove since the incident but I just get so nervous and feel like I’m gonna cry. I want to get out of this fear so much because have to rely on other people for my transportation. This also makes me feel immature and stupid because I don’t drive. This fear has affected my life so much. I don’t know how to get over this! I need help.

  • jh April 5, 2011, 10:13 pm

    I feel so retarded bcause i can’t drive…i have very low self esteem and I just wished i could die if i’m always going to live this retarded, slow, depressed, miserable life. i hate seeing others drive like nothing while I just feel stupid for not being able to do something so “simple”. I know i’m a smart girl and I could’ve have achieved so many things in my life, but I can’t continue my education or get a decent job because I’m not going to be asking people to drive me around all the time..oh yeah, and I’m not handicap…I’m just so miserable, i feel like i was born cursed or just my plain bad luck

  • Shelly April 8, 2011, 12:40 pm

    I get anxiety when im driving on freeways. I hate freeways, especially when it’s going down hill. I don’t like what it has done to me. I was in a car accident before all this happened and ever since I have trouble on freeways. Thats where my accident happened.
    I feel embarrassed and scared. I want to fix this fear I have. Hopefully reading this will help me.

  • Monica April 27, 2011, 10:38 pm

    I am terrified of being in cars. I have had a car crash caused by another driver which caused me to rollover three times and I remember vividly rolling over at times. The other driver didn’t even check to see if I was alive. I did wear a seatbelt and only hot a minor cut to my arm. After that I tried riding a bicycle and another car crashed into me , failing to see me because of the sun . In that accident I got catapulted onto the windshield hurting my back. No I take the bus which makes me feel safer. If I get in a car anything over 45 km/ hr makes me anxious and uncomfortable. I also tend to argue with drivers and give them driving instructions when I feel they are innatentive. It’s such a hardship!!!!! But I can’t even think about trying after so many failures . It’s not my driving that scares me- it’s other people’s driving that terrifies me , drunk drivers, people that text and drive or have conversations in the car :(((

  • Whitney May 2, 2011, 12:46 am

    Hello all, I am 24 yrs old, & I have a 5 yr old Child. & I have the fear of driving. She is soon to start school, and I am so embarrased that i only have a permit. She even tells me to get my license!! I have my own car and all, I am just fearfull and I am ready to overcome it! I just wish everyone luck, and want to remind you that 2: Timothy 1:7 says “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind”. Let’s get out there People! AND DRiVE!!!! 🙂

  • newshams May 16, 2011, 3:00 am

    I’m going to be 35 very soon
    I never drove in the freeway
    I need so much help cause I’m quite tense when I drive regularly
    one day I was only 40 days or less driver and I was going to hit a child on his bike but I wasn’t fast at all and I was making right turn when I stopped at the red light I spotted the young cchild in a very busy intersection riding his small bike alone!
    since then I ‘ve been very scared to drive even by myself
    I can’t think even how will I be able to drive in the freeway?!
    my husband never encourages me to do so either!
    I have been a driver for a few years only and I’m not able to drive regularly because of my husband too.
    please anyone can help with any useful suggesstion
    NS on May 16 2011 Monday

  • Julie May 18, 2011, 7:44 am

    I have a horrible fear of driving which I MUST get over. I am 57 years old and once had a license when I was in my early 20’s. If I have driven 15 miles in my life that is a lot. And what fed into the fear is that it took so long for me to finally pass the driving test and everyone telling me that i was a terrible driver. I left the state I was living in to get married and never got a license in the new state and as a result my license expired. But my story gets even sadder.

    I was totally reliant on my husband to drive me to wherever I needed to go for over 35 years. He passed away and after that I have been relying on my children to take me where I have to go. My children are now moving out and I will now be dependent on a public transportation system that is basically non-existent. So now I am going to have to overcome this fear.

    Probably the worst of this problem is the embarassment and humilliation that I dont drive. I have not been able to look for a job, visit with friends, go to the store on my own. I have been held hostage to the schedules of my children and have had to walk on egg shells when asking if I can get a ride somewhere, And of course i dont even tell anyone I dont drive because I am so ashamed. Hopefully me writing this will be my first step in getting my permit, take driving lessons, pass the driving test so I can be a productive member of society again.

  • Leah May 21, 2011, 2:56 am

    I am 21 years old and I have always been afraid of driving and have been forced to now. I am lucky enough to live in a city with relatively decent public transit but because I am a journalism major I have a lot of internships where I have to be in places quickly to cover stories.

    This fear has really stalled this and many other opportunities I’m coming across. For example, I had the opportunity to study Arabic in Jordan this summer but turned it down because I knew once and for all I had to devote this summer to getting over my fear and just doing it. I didn’t want it to be in the way any longer because it is getting more and more inconvenient and I am getting more and more anxiety.

    The sad thing is, if I had the nerve to do it earlier I could be doing all of the other things I am bold enough and capable of doing. I don’t know what it is, I picture myself crashing, my palms sweating etc. I am also tired of my family making fun of me and I always find ways to get around telling friends who aren’t close. However, I am lucky enough to be with a great guy for four years who is willing to teach me. Good luck to everyone!!

  • JJ May 25, 2011, 3:08 pm

    I will be 56 this year. Got my license when I was 39 just because I told myself I would get it before 40. I am so afraid of driving and I don’t know why. I’ve never been in an accident, no near misses or anything. I have always been more comfortable being driven or taking public transportation but now that I am not living in NYC, I really need to drive. I bought a brand new car in 2009 but have never driven it. Gave it to my daughter. I am unemployed now and as I search for jobs, there are many I can’t apply to because I would have to drive. In this economy, with so many of us unemployed any opportunity that comes my way I should be able to at least consider. It’s frustrating because in everything else, I’m very independent and hate asking anyone for anything. That should be enough to make me drive but it isn’t.

  • Frankie May 29, 2011, 4:06 pm

    After reading all the stories i feel so much better knowing i am not alone with this driving phobia i have,mine started after a car pulled out in front of me causing me to crash into it.i was in a town i had lived in for a short time,my husband was miles away that day.i was taken to the hospital for a checkout.i was shaken and scared to death that no one was there with me that day.i have had panic attacks ever since that happened.i hope and pray your advise on how to overcome this fear works for me/and all of you out there who suffer the same fate.

  • Makiah June 2, 2011, 4:32 pm

    I’m 21 and I just recently obtained my permit. I’ve had some instructional driving from teachers at drivers courses, but I hate every minute I’m in a car. I get car sick just being in a car. When I drive I get very hot, and I feel really aware of my surroundings. The problem is my teacher doesn’t see things the same way. I can’t judge depth perception on the road even though my vision has been checked and cleared. I always feel like a car is going to blindside me. it happens alot, and people make it seem like its as rare as winning the lottery or something. If my teacher didn’t have the emergency brake on his side of the car, we could have gotten into serious accidents many times.

    While in a vehicle, I get really sick to my stomach, and my eyes begin to twinge. I can’t concentrate on the road because I’m thinking of so many things at once. I hate how a car continuously moves unless you tell it not to. A car should go as I command, and stop as I command. My freaking lawn mower does this and everything’s easy. That concept should be implemented into a car. As it is now, I press the brakes instead of the gas and vice versa. I can’t do all that multi tasking. I start drifting off at that point. I have a huge problem focusing. As such, I often have to ask for rides, and people get upset with me. Nobody wants to spend time with me because of this, and it ruins my already embarrassing reputation. People tell me to get over it. I feel like killing the next person who says that. They don’t understand what its like to not be able to properly drive. My life is boring, cynical, and meaningless as a result. I just want to be able to have fun for the first time in my life, and part of that is getting a better body…which requires a gym…which requires a car to get there. I can’t rely on people anymore. People will soon learn that everybody’s expendable.

  • Crystal B June 11, 2011, 2:43 pm

    Hi, I am 26 years old and have this ridiculous fear of drving, at the age of 19 I was involved in a bad car crash with a intoxicated driver and every since my fear has magnetized. Not knowing how to drive has hindered so many aspects of my life, I virually have no social life outside of work, take on-line courses for school and pretty soon I will not be able to continue taking on-line courses and will have to drive to school. I live in texas which is very big and full of highways. I am so embarrassed of my situation and have pushed friends away before they find out that I do not know how to drive .I want that freedom that driving allows and for once I am not going to give up and just do it. once I conquer my fear I won’t feel as trapped and lonely and continue a productive life w/o needing others to drive me around. I am so glad that I ran across this website because I thought I was all alone in this situation but realize that is the first step I have made into conquering my fear.

  • mehitable June 20, 2011, 11:49 am

    I learned how to drive when I was 25, always hated, hated, hated, hated, hated it, but fortunately lived in a big city with plenty of public transportation so I never needed to drive and rarely missed it. Now however, I’ve had to move out to the suburbs because we can’t afford the city – literally – and now I’m in a position where after over 20 years….I have to relearn. I have a license, but I’m relearning with my boyfriend, and it’s really hard. I not only have a fear of driving, I absolutely HATE driving. I don’t even like being a passenger frequently. Can’t stand highways. One thing I would like to say to everyone who has this fear or hatred of driving is….STOP BLAMING YOURSELF. You’re RIGHT to be afraid!!! Driving is one of the most dangerous activities you can ever engage in! Tens of thousands of people die or are badly injured in car crashes every year! It’s common. And it costs tons of money. Traffic sucks. The whole process of driving DOES suck. You actually are far more intelligent than the ordinary person in your hatred and/or fear of driving. It is completely RATIONAL to hate and fear driving. Those people who don’t….just don’t have enough brains to take it seriously. They’re unaware of the damage they could do. That’s why kids take to driving so easily – they have such limited awareness.

    It’s really unfortunate that our society is built so much on cars and individual driving as the answer here really IS more and better public transportation. Many if not most, of the people who are driving….shouldn’t be. Whether they are afraid or not.

    So STOP BLAMING YOURSELF for your fear. STOP FEELING GUILTY. You are actually RIGHT to feel fearful. It just means you’re smarter and more aware than the average bear.

    So….now that you hopefully will stop blaming yourself and feeling guilty and ashamed….most of you – and me – unfortunately need to master this skill until we actually get public transportation. I think the way to do that, and what I am doing, is to do a little at a time each day until you feel reasonably comfortable in limited situations. Try to drive for 15 minutes each day at least, and then work up to maybe a half hour. Drive in deserted areas or parking lots. Graveyards if you can. Then work up to more trafficked areas.

    Accept your fear. It’s sensible and will probably make you a better driver. If you feel physically ill, you might need hypnosis, or therapy or maybe even meds to control general anxiety. And accept that while you can improve a great deal…there are some things you may never be able to do. I will NEVER be able to drive on a highway. But I don’t want to and I would do virtually anything to avoid it as I know I am a poor driver and will always be a danger to myself and others. That’s not negative thinking…it’s just reality. Be realistic with yourself, accept your limitations but realize you can improve somewhat, and most importantly, STOP KICKING YOURSELF. YOU are in the right, it is the society that forces you to drive in an individual car, which is dangerous and wasteful, that is WRONG.

  • Toni August 1, 2011, 11:17 pm

    I am now 25, i started learning to drive at very early age 12 or 13, but the car was automatic, I only drove over the weekends, I’ve always had a fear of driving manual, I felt i couldnt control the car well enough and just not used to the extra pedal. I never got my licence, and haven’t had the automatic car for a long time. I haven’t driven in a long time and when I did drive, it wasn’t often enough to gain confidence in my driving.

    My fear now is that I am out of practice and im ashamed to be learning at my age. It’s has really affected my life, i have missed out on a lot in live, simply because i don’t drive. I keep putting it off, but the fact is, im only getting older, and the longer I wait, the harder it’ll get. So before i get any older, I am going to make a serious effort to get in the car and practice, atleast 30 minutes a day.

    I’ve never crashed a car, but when i was 13yo my dad was teaching me and i lost control by leaving the clutch too quickly and it scared the hell out of me, so my real fear is the clutch pedal, and changing gears. I will try to pretend i am driving an auto, except when i need to take off or change gears, but its been years since i drove any type of car. When i do drive, i drive pretty well, but it still makes me nervous.

    I’ve also had this fear of being hit from behind, i’ll look in the rear view mirror and panic when I see a car, then drive faster, this sometimes caused me to take the bend too fast, squeeling the tires because i was afraid to slow down infront of other cars. I will try to tell myself, “they’ve got brakes too, just slow down gradually and nobody will hit you”.

    The only way to conquer this fear is to get into the car, put some music on and take it slow. I can’t go another day without making an effort to learn and conquer.

  • jennifer September 1, 2011, 8:23 am

    i am 31 years old, and i have the worst fear of driving in the world.i actually took my written test and passed, but haven’t gotten much further.my husband and i only have a truck for me to learn in but im terrified because its huge to me,and i guess after reading all your stories,i have figured out that im scared that i will hit something or someone,or crash, or…im just scared to even attempt busy traffic.people down me because of my handicap….i feel less of a person because i cant drive. im afraid that the people who are teaching me will get mad if i do something wrong…idk…i’ve gotta do something.i know that GOD will take my fear away…im just waiting..if anyone has advice,it will be appreciated

  • Texas gal September 7, 2011, 11:08 am

    Hi, I am 54 yrs. old and like the other people who have written comments, I have anxienty moments about driving. My husband is so cool and supportive; however, I know he feels I should drive. Only if I take it “baby steps”. I drove before, but gave up when I didn’t have a car. Now is the big challenge, he is suppose to go in for medical test and I am suppose to drive him home. (Lord, help me)! I am going to try the simple brain reprogramming exercise. I hope it works. Good luck to you all!

  • Charlene December 7, 2011, 12:37 pm

    For the past month or so I am having anxiety while driving at night. I see cars coming at me from the left and the right. I tried staying in the right lane as long as I can but the traffic merging on to the highway frightens me too. I need help. If the weather is clear, I do m uch better. However, if it is raining or foggy out, the anxiety overcomes me. I am getting very scared. I have asked for an accomodation to leave work an hour early so I don’t have to drive in the darkness. I can’t see the road. I reached out to my eye doctor who says there is a need for glasses. After 3 attempts I finally picked up my new glasses last night. I will try and wear them to see if this helps with seeing the road better. The highway keeps changing due to construction so that does not help. I h ave to only drive 16 miles each way and I seem to do well in the morning to work. I don’t have anxiety so it has to be the darkness. I wish I could find help. I have a call out to my medical doctor. I feel like I am going to crash and die on the highway.

  • Jodi January 4, 2012, 11:24 pm

    I’m 23 and never had my licence, I’m scared because I don’t want to be the one to make a mistake and end up ending someone else’s life much less mine, everyone keeps telling me GET YOUR LICENCE GET YOUR LICENCE but no one seems to understand I’m scared, they just tell me I’m stupid for thinking that, I don’t mind driving down my parents dirt road but as far as the road i just dont know if i could or not I wish I could overcome this and people would help me instead of criticize me for it, I have never really had the urge to go out and learn, But I think my problem is when i was really little my sunday school teacher and 2 other women got killed in a bad wreck and ever since then it just scared me. I need help, I want help

  • mel January 18, 2012, 2:11 am

    Hello,I am 25 years old.with three kids. I used to fear driving.I just Gog in my van and said I can drive.I kept practicing and practicing.We can over come anything and we can accomplish anything.just have to set our minds to our goals in life.Self driven is the road to success in everyday life. Say a prayer and ask God to help control the wheel he will.He doesn’t give up on us so we can’t give up on ourselves.life is what we make it.

  • Mandy February 16, 2012, 3:48 am

    Hey, I am 22 years old. I have had my drivers license for about a year. I had my “learners” permit for 4 years prior to taking my test, as I could not get over the fear. Thinking about driving brings on major panic attacks that leave me nauseated and crying. Since, I got into a pretty scary accident where I almost flipped my car and did successfully shoot off the road into a bush and completely totaled my car. I was injured, and 6 months later I am still in pain from my accident. I’ve pretty much given up on the fact that I will ever drive again, and I’ve come to accept that I will pretty much live a limited life because I am not able to drive. I am not able to get whatever job I want, as I am limited to the available bus hours(which also give me panic attacks ever since someone was stabbed in the head on the main bus on my street), and I am simply not able to visit family or friends unless they come to me. Sad? Yeah. I just don’t know how to tell myself that I will be okay and alive if I drive, and believe it. I’m kind of looking for advice to see if anything would help, but I’m really not expecting anything to help. Someone suggested I take more driving lessons, but I used to put my driving instructor into a panic as well. I don’t know if you’ve had a panic attack bad enough to make the person next to you freak out too, but it really doesn’t help your situation when you’re looking to them for guidance. Any ideas?

  • Chasitie February 28, 2012, 4:06 pm

    Im 32 and Ive never had a problem driving.Then 2 yrs.ago something made me start getting anxiety really bad while driving.It really gets old to me and everyone else..I have homeschooled my kids because I don’t won’t to have to take them…I just wish I could get out there and not worry about anything..Lord I just wish I could get passed this…I will overcome this I don’t care what it takes…

  • PORTIA March 4, 2012, 1:50 am

    my situation is very strange. i was never in an accident or lost someone close in a car accident. but my fear for driving is so extreme. i always leave my car at home and take a cab to work and back. go shopping using public transport. my boyfriend always drive my car and if i want to vist friends i ask him to drop me and pick me up. i don’t know why this happens. each time i seat on the dseat i start to shake, then sweat and have anxiety attacks. i always drive with a bottle of cold water. it gets even worse when i have passangers. i am more confident when i am alone cose i fear they might critisize my driving, making it even worse. i need help

  • jana March 6, 2012, 7:28 pm

    my fear of driving started when i was driving my truck a few yr’s bk and i had my first panic attack.. i was driving down the road and all of a sudden my hands stared sweating my chest too heart racing ..along with tunnel vision ..i pulled over scared to death ..thought i was dying .. even went to the er just to find out i wasnt dying and i wasnt having a heart attack ..so so embar.. now the only way ill think of driving is if someone is with me in the car ..

  • Choops March 22, 2012, 1:22 am

    Hi. I am now 17 and I justpassed my theory test. I have never been so nervous into any test. Not even those big ones in school or during my basketball games against other country. I feel. So pathetic that I might have driving phobia while all my friends are starting their driving journeys as well. I told my friends about taking test and driving freely. But when I sit alone at home, in front of my desk with that theory book. I feel nervous all of a sudden. I tried studying everything felt it wasn’t enough. I’m scared about not passin it. I nervous when I imagine my hands on the wheel
    When i entered the room. I felt scraedand nervous but i did it anyway. Now that I have passed, I’m going to listen to the practical test and take the test itself soon. See, I am a girl with pride. I wish to do things perfectly and better than anyone else. So havin this fear is.. Just embarrassing.
    Before the test,I wish to get rid of the fear. I don’t mind taking time. All i know is I don’t want to be cripple from driving. I need to drive to go for trainin or games which my parents are starting to ask me to do myself as long as its not too relevant studies. I feel it’s a starting stage of phobia. Guess I should not watch too many hospital drama with car accidents or ‘caught on tape’, haha.
    it’s comforting to know that it’s not only me out there. I hope we canall try to overcome it. God bless! Loves.

  • Allison March 26, 2012, 12:09 pm

    I’m 20, and have had my learner’s permit for two years; I have to get it renewed this summer. I’ve never been involved in any horrible accident, nor have I really heard of my friends being in a serious one. At first, I thought I didn’t have the right motivation, since everything from my work to the grocery store is in walking distance. Then, my grandfather said he could get me this really good job, with health benefits and a very nice salary, and all I have to do is get my liscence…and, yet, I can’t drive. I’ve tried several times, and by the time I’ve adjusted the mirrors and my seat, I’m in an anxiety attack and have to immediately leave the car (half the time, the car isn’t even on yet). I’m hoping these exercises work; I’m tired of asking my husband for rides all the time and feeling so dependant.

  • Shir March 27, 2012, 10:22 pm

    I’m 20 and I’ve been in 3 car accidents. The first when I got hit while riding my bike, the second was in a parking lot, and the last was when I lost control on the interstate at 80 mph. I just bought a brand new car but when I drive, I start to panic. I feel like if I make even one tiny mistake, I’ll crash because it is simply so easy to total a car. I hate curvy single lane roads with high speed limits. I have nightmares about driving on those. It’s been helping me to talk on the phone (through Bluetooth) while driving and I like to sit in the driver’s seat in the parking lot and just listen to music. Ill also try aromatherapy and simply just drive long distances on winding roads just to conquer my fears.

  • Anonymous April 15, 2012, 1:54 am

    Im 32 just got my license in feb this year about 1 1/2 yrs ago I got into an accident coming home from work no one was hurt I had on my seat belt but I did total my car. Ever since then I kept saying I will never drive ago..after a while I told myself I’m sick and tired of watching everyone get up and go when they want but I was still nervous about driving. I finally sucked it up went and got my license even passed on the first try. I know how to drive I’m very good and very safe but I still get real nervous. I don’t drive far from my home the farthest I’ve gone was about 30 mins to my job and that’s only every other weekend. I’ve been taking it slow and driving in my area but I want to to overcome this fear. I want to be able to get in the car loosen up and not be so tense or afraid

  • Lacey April 22, 2012, 9:40 pm

    Hi I am 19 years old, for some reason that I cannot seem to find out I am beyond terrified of driving. I don’t recall being in any accidents or knowing anyone who has been in one. I just know that I have stalled for 3 years of my life in getting my license. I still have not received it. I am miserable. I don’t like not feeling free, that I’m trapped in one place and have to be at the mercy of my parents to take me everywhere. I cry everytime I get in the car I feel like I can’t breathe. I’m terrified beyond ayones belief, my family will never understand as much as I can explain it. I want to get past this,but I just seem like I can’t do it.

  • Nadine April 23, 2012, 2:29 pm

    My fear of driving is more worse than anybody. I am so scared of driving that I can’t put the car in drive and pull out of a parking lot parking space. I’ve haven’t driven in 25 years, that’s when I had a minor fender bender. I have 2 luxury cars that my spouse purchased for me. My drivng phobia is so bad that today I called to sign up for driving lessons I got scared thinking about driving and hanged up the phone in the middle of scheduling the appt. I’ve frightened my daughter and grandkids from driving. They are at an age they should drive. They say they’re scared like me.

  • Mary July 31, 2012, 5:38 pm

    hello, I am 64 years old, I have given up on trying to drive. I have never had my license, ever. A long time ago, when I was about 30 something, a friend of mine was trying to teach me how to drive. I was very nervous, what upset me the most was that at one point during my adventure in driving land, she was shouting my name loudly, and I literally did not hear her! I had gone into a “trance” like state and the fact that I had tuned her out really concerned me. It is quite a handicap, in fact there are handicapped people who DO drive, that makes me feel even worse, oh well, I’m a christian too, and I know that I’m not supposed to fear things, but, I’m only human. Fortunately, I live in a town that has a decent transit system. But being dependent on the bus only is really annoying. I can’t believe that some people actually think that I choose to not drive! Nope, it’s just a fear. Many times at night I have dreams that I am able to drive and I have no fear, when I wake up, I am sad that it wasn’t real. I think that I am more afraid of the other drivers than I am of myself. The only thing I can think of that might have scared me was that I had a friend, who I didn’t know very well, crash and die when she was on her way to a party. She was in a convertible. She was a happy bubbly person. Maybe that started my fear, i don’t know, I was about 15 or so at the time. I’ve accepted the fact that I have this fear, now I just explain to people that I have a fear of driving and since a lot of people have fears of other things these days, they seem to understand. I don’t know, I’m just glad that there is a transit bus near me. Maybe one day I’ll get over this? IDK, meanwhile I’ve just accepted it.

  • Rene August 5, 2012, 11:15 pm

    I am 38 years old and never had my license. I was almost in 2 accidents trying to learn to drive. A few years ago, I obtained my learners permit, and was doing well with practice. Then my hands started hurting real bad. My husband told me it was all in my head. However, I gave up on the driving. My hubby is on my corner but it’s a huge inconvenience for my family. I have 11 siblings, I rely on them and my parents too much. At family gatherings, someone brings up that i need to get my license. This makes me feel really bad. My daughter bought home a drivers manual and said “Mom you need to learn how to drive. This really hit me below the belt. I know that God is gonna help me through this. Im tired of feeling trapped.

  • Stephanie August 17, 2012, 8:48 pm

    Wow. I never realized there were that many people with the same problem I have. I’m 23 years old with two kids and never learned to drive. I think alot of my fear of driving has to do with being involved in a car accident when I was 15 and was ejected from the car. My mom was driving and i wasn’t seriously injured, but the police officer at the scene said the car was only 5 feet from having landed on me. I think this incident, coupled with the fact that I lost 5 people from my graduating class to car accidents with in the same year is the reason for my fear of driving. I am so ready to overcome this fear! It is so embarrassing and is keeping me from being able to see my oldest son who lives in a different state. I am so tired of public transportation and depending on other people to drive me where I need to go and being stuck at the house all the time when I should be going out having a good time. I really hope this program works!

  • Chris September 5, 2012, 10:49 am

    I’m almost 45 years old and have such a huge fear of driving. I’m not even sure what has caused this fear. I got my permit at 16 and practiced driving some, but never really had anyone to teach me. I think that after a while I became so embarrassed that I gave up. The worst was when my younger sister got her license and I still couldn’t drive. Now my neices and nephews are driving! It’s not so much that I don’t know how, it’s that I’m afraid that I won’t be able to react fast enough to avoid an accident. I guess you could say that I’m more afraid of other people’s driving than my own. I feel so useless because of this fear. I’m so embarrassed to tell anyone that I don’t drive. My husband had surgery last month and I had to ask my sister to drive us home from the hospital. I’m an adult! My husband has to take time off of work to take our son and me to appointments. It’s awful. I’ve made up my mind that I WILL overcome this fear. Through hypnotherapy, professional driving lessons, whatever it takes. I need my self-esteem back. I need to be someone that my family can count on. Just reading about other people who have the same fear has made me feel like I’m not alone and it has actually given me the inspiration to do whatever it takes!

  • Niki October 22, 2012, 3:50 am

    I am almost 20 now and I have a very extreme fear of driving in town. I like out in the country – extremely rural – and I have zero problem driving out here, no problems what So even! But once I hit town I basically start to panic with all the other cars around me. I have never been in an accident or anything like that So I’m not not quite sure where my fear is rooted but I’m going to test out this method and wish for the best 🙂 Wish me luck!

  • Bekah December 24, 2012, 11:23 am

    I have been looking for some kind of help with my fear. 42 yrs old and never driven. I have always depended on someone else to bring me were I needed to go. I promised myself I would gain my independence once I learn but that fear of not being sure that I can do it. I want to drive why can’t I get over the fear.

  • Ruth January 17, 2014, 1:56 pm

    I can relate to almost all the stories behind my fear of driving. No one seems to understand why I am so fearful. The moment I get behind the wheel, I get so terrified I can hardly think straight, my heart beats so fast and my hands get all sweaty. I hate having to be dependent on other people to take me places and I have lost many job openings. I hate to feel like this but no matter what I do, this all consuming fear just wont go away. I want so badly to have my own car and be independent. I need help, what can I do?

  • sima feiz May 17, 2014, 1:41 pm

    please help me for getting ride of phobia in driving . thanks

  • Doris Suttles June 27, 2014, 2:32 pm

    I am 54 years old and have never driven, I am terrified, my husband tried to teach me but I couldn’t do, so he took me everywhere, to work everyday. Then he died, now I am dependant on my daughters I know they hate me driving me place, I wish I could be more independent but I am so scared.

  • Mayuri H October 24, 2016, 12:04 am

    I am 26 and I cant get myself to drive a car or any vehicle yet. Am I phobic?

  • gamepro1080 January 28, 2017, 5:12 am

    I never wish to drive almost 40, I’m so glad I don’t have to do this crap no insurance, no car. I really don’t care if I ever drive, even on my death bed I will not shed a tear I never drove a car thank God.

  • Candace May 8, 2017, 7:29 am

    I’ve never been afraid of driving before. I’m 25 years old and I got my license at 17 so I’ve been driving for years. I spend a lot of time on the highway traveling from my home and work to my parents’ house. Lately, however, this feeling of dread has been creeping up on me whenever I am driving 50 mph or faster. It started slowly so I thought nothing of it, but it’s gotten worse with time. Then last night I was on the turnpike and I had a full on anxiety attack and had the urge to hit the brakes right there in the middle of the highway. I was able to safely pull over and I called my parents hysterically crying. They picked me up and brought me back to their house but I can’t stay here forever. I’m terrified to get back on the road now. I never thought of myself as having a fear of driving because I do it all the time and I’ve never experienced any kind of trauma on the road before. I’m not sure what this could be.

  • Marcus July 1, 2017, 1:03 am

    I have had a fear of driving my entire life. A quick history, when I was taking drivers education in high school a lot of my classmates hated me and called me derogatory names regarding intellectual disabilities. It really made it hard for me to drive the drivers ed car fearing I will make a mistake and I did make mistakes. In fact, I was the first student to actually have someone get angry enough to follow the drivers ed car back to school and complain to the drivers ed instructors. Even though I’ve driven for several years and never have been in an accident, I have drivers who get mad at my driving and have even been chased by road ragers. what upsets me is I have no idea what I’m doing wrong when I should be able to easily figure this out. About the only thing I have to go on is that most drivers get upset when I’m behind a slow moving car and it is always the car or cars directly behind me who get upset. It can’t be for going too slow since I cannot go any faster than the vehicle in front of me is going. I try to maintain a speed and maintain a safe following distance and often the motorist directly behind me or another car behind them will get mad at me. When people ride with me they don’t see anything wrong with my driving so they are of no help. If I knew what I was doing wrong and knew how to avoid angering drivers I would enjoy driving. I just cannot believe that after all these yours that I cannot figure out what I’m doing wrong and there has to be something that I’m doing wrong since you don’t get multiple people get mad at you without good reason. I’ve even had a drivers ed instructor ride with me and he saw nothing wrong with my driving. He even praised me on my habits such as using turn signals, checking blind spots before making lane changes, etc.

  • Aluna July 29, 2017, 2:29 pm

    I’m 21 years old and am currently in the process of getting my driver’s license this year. But I am absolutely terrified of driving. I have never crashed a car before but just thinking of driving a car sends waves of panic through my body. I’ve passed the computer test and all that is left for me to take is the road test – which is very terrifying for me because I’m not the best driver and the worst part is that my feet will tremble whenever I use the clutch and gas pedals, it’s that bad. Despite my dad giving me driving lessons from when I was 16 I wasn’t very confident as they weren’t regularly conducted. I’m scared that I would lose control and crash – or worse, get someone killed. I would love to be able to drive myself around and driving is an essential skill nowadays.

  • JoAnn March 30, 2018, 9:04 am

    I have a horrible driving phobia! I can’t even stand being a passenger! I know exactly why…other drivers! I am a good driver and I handle a car very well. Many people have told me this. So many other drivers seem to be so careless these days! They are texting, speeding, drunk, aggressive, ignorant of the rules of the road, and the list goes on!

  • Octavia May 30, 2018, 6:33 pm

    I have been driving since I have been 16 and never had a problem. Now for the past 8 years I have horrible driving anxiety and mainly on freeways and expressways. I don’t know how to over come it and it’s taking over my life. I avoid going places very often because I’m afraid to drive. The anxiety makes me feel like I am going to loose control over the car. Is this something you can really over come?

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